"Become the known." My parents have given me plenty of great advice over the years, but this is my dad's favorite. If a new restaurant opens in town, he's on a first name basis with the owner within a week; at a large social gathering, he'll make a new friend in no time. While in these situations I usually prefer to remain just a face in the crowd, he encourages me to step forward and make myself known.
Recently, someone sent me a list of 50 pieces of advice being shared on social media (although "become the known" didn't make the cut!). This got me thinking – what are the best pieces of advice out there?
I set out to answer this question using TRC's online panel and our message testing Bracket™ technique. Through this tournament-style approach, we asked 500 respondents ages 25+ to choose the best (and worst) pieces of advice from this list of 50 items. Click here to see the full list. Our results were calculated at the respondent level, then aggregated and normalized on a 100-point scale.
So, what advice did our participants like best overall? The top 10 pieces of advice, in order of relative performance, were:
1. Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.
2. Remember, no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
3. Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
4. Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all they have.
5. Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.
6. Don't burn bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
7. Count your blessings.
8. Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 percent of all your happiness or misery.
9. Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen every day.
10. Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems.